Where does this certainty?
By being a mean three things. Answer three simple questions:
What? - You know what you want.
Why? - You know what motivates you to get it.
How? - You know how to achieve it.
Imagine - if we are to answer these three questions - what we need more? The only thing I can think of, we need time and energy - to translate those answers into action that will bring the desired effect. But what if you do not know the answer to any of them? And what if we do not have any answers? It is for you to ask yourself how it is in your case - can it be that you know what you want, but you have no idea, why it chose, and not what andnnego. Or maybe you know what you want, but do not know how it achieve?
Any deficiencies in these responses result is that we lack the confidence and certainty, the way we are going. And that confidence is crucial if we want to achieve something bigger. I am not an authority in this field, did not get so much more, to turn into a teacher, but what I'm przkonany one hundred per cent - the confidence and certainty of their way make a huge difference. Confidence is one of the main reasons why the losers are losers and winners - winners.
Such a simple example to examine the certainty, there are two simple questions. Both have recently been asked and I both could not make senseie, in 2-3 sentences to answer:
- What are your goals in life?
- Who are you? What do you do?
The fact that I was unable to answer is twofold. First of all - lack of communication skills. I can not be sold - either himself or his ideas. That is something over which I worked. The second reason why I did not answer is that they simply do not know the answer. I have no idea what my goals in life - if they are, it is very general, and the sooner I can already tell about the values of the I direct. Goals? They are subject to change. Nor do I know who I am. The easiest way would be if you be working as a teacher - I would say briefly, "jestem teacher. " And now? If someone asks me who I am - the only sensible way out is to tell him the story of my life, if less - more will know the answer to this question. A few words is not enough to answer - unless you say "I'm me."
I wonder - where is this certainty? It is necessary to achieve something, something to gain. You have to be sure you and your goals. But how does it relate to the fact that I do not want to limit? I do not want to have pre-defined, measurable goals in life? I do not want to talk about myself in four words just so that others can more easily put me into some drawer? And how is it with you - are you sure kindreds goals? You are sure of themselves?
There are many questions - and the more answers those questions that shows up more and more:)
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