Why excuses are dangerous?
The excuses are justifying myself.
I discovered it quite recently. I was surprised how often I make them myself and am looking for. All too often ..
The most common excuses are available in two situations:
1. When you're scared - then by all means we want to prove that what we fear really is not necessary for us to be happy.
2. When you need to do something you do not want to - then we are looking for just such arguments, which strengthens us in our (negative) attitude.
In both cases, the bend reality to our own needs. We close our eyes to what we are not responsible and open only when we look at things convenient for us. Interpretworld on our own, twisted way.
This is not menacing, because ultimately each of us has his own vision of the world. But the interpretation associated with the pretext of searching for excuses and constantly keeps us from acting - and that really is dangerous. Because if you do not act - it does not have the effect of ...
So let's remember these words:
"Instead of looking for reason - look for ways"
Instead of thinking about why we do not reach the
much better to think about how to achieve this goal.
How do I fight a constant search for the reasons? I use two methods:
1. Determinants - that is, principles and action plans, which hold on tight. When you specifya specific job to do, there is no room for excuses.
2. Awareness - listen carefully to what their thoughts while trying to keep at the greatest possible objectivity. Difficult, but feasible.
Or maybe you have some other, proven ways on how to get rid of excuses?
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