Why low position?
Since my friend I heard about these words:
"I prefer not to plan anything, because I'm so if these plans do not go ... I go for everything rather pessimistic. From the top is adjusted to the fact that I did not succeed. Thus, if I fail, and so nothing changes. But if something I can make it - then I'm positively surprised. "
This approach I call "low position". In the picture it's a loser - a line on the left:
According to the figure - and according to my observation - people can be put into two categories.
The first men to winners. They have the strength to fight. Do not give up and put on your own.Lose often, but every time they learn, and every time they are better and smarter. Have high and ambitious goals. Thanks to still go forward, still up.
Others people are losers. You do not have the power nor the inclination to fight. Dreams for them will always remain just dreams. They are afraid to take risks, afraid to take a definite decision. Instead of working towards achieving its goals - these goals will not put myself at all. They are afraid of losing, and by all means do not intend to lay low and give up his secure position.
Individual items in the diagram can be described this way:
A - The person does not have the strength to fight. It is sad because I lost
\u0026lt;br /> B - A person who is sad because I lost. Thanks to the experience of loss is smarter and has more strength to fight
C - A person who is happy because I succeeded. Gives her a momentary surge of new energy. Celebrating.
D - A person who is satisfied with the degree of success achieved. With it has even more strength to fight.
Both groups on the successes and failures react in different ways. Now you must decide which group you want to join. What you will take the position?
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