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How to change others?



Once I spent a lot of time figuring out how to change others as they help in such a way that will point out a better way. I'll give a hint that will change lives for the better. Let me help with a few words and I will describe some obvious evidence that had been hidden somewhere. In my life naodkrywałem these obvious a lot, so I thought it worthwhile to share them.

In this case came out of two basic assumptions: I know what is best for someone, this someone needs my help

Both assumptions turned out to be wrong. I realized this about half a year ago and since then it works differently. Did not offer to help. Do not wonder how someone "

dogood. " It was only when someone specifically asks for it - then willingly devote their energy and time, but not until then! In przciwnym if - if I had not been explicitly asked - wypadłbym the intruder. For someone who is obvious.

It was a very valuable study to find out that I do not know what's good for other people. As so often wrong - like everyone - this is why I have someone give guidance, to teach him how to proceed? Why do I have to say what to do? And why should I have someone to take pleasure in learning from their own failures and making their own decisions?

Of course - based on what we know now what I understand - I give to others in this way, silent± value, but only when that someone will want to hear what I have to pass. Only when he comes to me and asks me a question. Because why should I give a ready answer, since no one even asked me questions?

This is so, how convincing. The truth is simple and can be quite cruel to some - but nobody can find out. That someone needs to convince himself. This can not be done "by force". Even if you achieve your goal and change someone's mind in a certain topic, that person is not identified with that and if he will be able to safely return to the previous sentence - do it, because it's her opinion.

With this in mind, go back again to the thought which has alreadydesired number of times, by many before me was taken into the workshop and broadcast to the world: instead of changing others - change yourself. At a time when you change yourself, change your world. These two sentences cover the whole topic. It is worth while for them to sit and reflect.

Before the time will come for it - you still need to answer the title question - "How to change the other?". I would not write about it. They are from the experts. So I ask another question:

Why? Why should I have someone to change when I change myself? Self-Improvement, change is continuous growth - until it brings real results. Also, this is much more comfortable way of life