Staroroczne summation
Before we get to plan the new year, first fitting to summarize it had just expired. This principle, at least I confess. Today I share with you how such a summation looked in my case.
But why?
Firstly - there to draw lessons. The year is quite a long time. During those 365 days I am sure that in the life of each one of us has a lot. While sometimes it can be difficult to draw any lessons from the passing day, so much the whole year should provide us with a large portion of new knowledge, new thoughts. As a result (if we replace our thoughts into action) develops, we get new skills. Even if it seemed that the year "already lost" because their intentionsErzen not have served, this stretch of the learning environment where you work better in the future. About removing the teachings I have written before.
Secondly - thanks to the flashback, hindsight is easier and more accurate schedule next year. You will know what went right and what is not so much. What to pay greater attention, and what does not exaggerate. You will gain a proper perspective. You could say that thanks to better know yourself.
And thirdly, it is good to get back his thoughts, because it is just nice. Sometimes it is said that in the past we remember what is good. If so, it is easy to find the positives in the past year. Certainly there are many situations in which the memory of a smile zagośyou to your face
Now a few words about the preparation for the "aggregation".
The key issue is to gather all the useful material in one place. If you run a diary - keep it with you. If you run a blog - Use what you wrote on it during the year. If (like me) you have books where you save your thoughts, plans, designs and ideas - will be very helpful. In addition to the materials may be other items - such as travel souvenirs. Everything that is in some way help you remember the year 2009 would be appropriate.
Another helpful method is to look back. First, sit back in silence. It's important for you to be relaxed. Undo thoughts sent toanger. Step by Step. Maybe not day by day, but revert to noting the key facts and events. Start at the recent New Year's Eve, and finish at 1 January 2009. Do not do it by force, but have fun. This method gives me the greatest pleasure and I use it is not every year but every day. Of course, going back more than 24 hours.
Something that will help you prepare for it accordingly ... conversation. If you so choose, and most importantly - you have the right person with whom you can talk about the past year - do it. It is advisable that this person knew you well. Of course, you also have to trust each other and freely say what you think. Unfortunately this year I conducted the interview did not, so do notI know by the end of what to expect. In theory it looks quite sensibly
As for the process of "aggregation" is I use two simple methods.
The first is a standard evaluation. We divide the sheet into two columns. On the left write "YES" on the right "NOT". On the left is to find that which we are happy. Our victory, the reasons for pride. On the right otherwise - where we put our failures, unfulfilled intentions and the areas in which we want to improve.
What that is exactly, is up to each individual. Some people will examine their work, it just ended up projects, such as increased (or decreased) ability, perhaps as salary changed? Other binding them more attentionto relationships with people, relationships with family and friends. You can also look at its development in general, the leadership skills and interpersonal skills. It is also to evaluate the past year, looking at the order of its beginning, if they took place. There should be no problem, because as people we are evaluating the champions. It is important only that the assessment was blunt. The truth, however painful and for us it is always better than lies.
The second method, I-can-I-I, is shown in the image below:
It is true that it's difficult? Just write:
- What's New I know what I learned?
- What can the new, which won new skills?
- What am I new which I have not had the year before? What new items donated? What I began a new relationship?
- Who I'm new? What I am now compared to the previous year? As it changed?
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Soon, another episode of the series. This time for planning.
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