Effects of other people
As the environment in which to turn the effect on your thoughts and behavior? People around odziałują on your person does not need to know about it. This happens constantly. When you turn in the company of successful people, he gradually you become like them. When you turn in the company of "narzekaczy" itself, you become like this.
It's simple, there is also another phenomenon - in contact with four eyes unconsciously imitate the caller, copying his movements, gestures, facial expressions. This is what I write above is very similar, but takes on a different level. Here and there you are a follower. When someone is sad, and you become sad, it takes such a mood as he, copying emotions. When you still hear "nithat we can "to start believing in it, copying ideas.
In fact, as humans we are very much alike. I'm not talking about physical characteristics, stored in the genes, but something more subtle - the mind. Well, we think the same way! Even as a child were you thinking imposed Chapter VII. Orders, prohibitions, rewards, praise, a word, parental education, and then wider - school, peer, you are forced into certain patterns of thinking and acting. Want to be valid and accepted.
I do not judge whether this is good or bad, but it is worth to be aware. Ersons I know that the power they want to distinguish from accepted norms, they are the loudest cry for acceptance. If you want to know yourselfs really - you know where you end up with YOU, and where they begin. All of this on your person.
Remember! Nobody has power over you, until he will not let it. I loved what Alex wrote on his blog (do not quote)-the words of others are nothing more than for us as only a vibration of air. Everything else, all our interpretations are already doing
Nkikt not live this life for you, nor take responsibility for them.
Now decide - take their lives into their hands, or you give into the hands of others.
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