Tuesday, 16 February 2010

Microscope Lens Cleaning Solution

A brief comment about giving up



Recently I decided that in order to criticize something that worked for a long time. I devoted to this project a lot of energy. My idea - seemingly brilliant - was not such a "mega". What's more - it turned out that he is already a large part (a slightly different form) in place. So this is how you will do a decent review of the market and competition:) With all this confusion I pulled a few other precious teachings, which I will share with you. But today I want to think about the sacrificing.

I wrote recently about making decisions. The fact that if you have something you choose, this choice is that we held on tight. We have to be consequenceshas been consistently and persevering - that was the message. Do not go back to these words, but remember that in all things moderation and you have to have everything you need to know how to properly balance.

Be confident and your goal is very important and very positive. Less positive for it is when we are so irrationally to our goal, we do not see what is happening around us. We close up the criticism and opinions of others, treating it either as something unjust, or even as something hostile. We can not correctly read the signals from the outside, and we interpret them in an appropriate way for us.

I will say by example - working on the project I shared it with many people. I've heard a lot of more or less constructive criticism, buttoo often been such that it did not use. It happened that when someone spoke negatively about my idea, I dumped in it that you just misunderstood what I have to pass. And indeed, often so it was that I could not adequately communicate (to "sell"), certain issues, but apart from this type of confusion, they were also pretty strong arguments on which I should sit down for longer and harder to think about. Instead, pretend that everything is ok and what was inconvenient for me - simply rejecting.

This type of attitude is a way to being blind, but I should say it more bluntly - it's just stupidity. Instead of closing up for what is inconvenient for us, we lookC for up everything objectively. We can not filter information depending on whether they are pleasant for us or not. Only with a true picture of the world, we can take the appropriate decision - for example whether it was time to quit.

You can be stubborn and fiercely sought goal, but the boundaries are. Sometimes it's difficult to catch the moment where you say "stop" and just do something else. Finally - we ourselves must decide whether to give up, or we will continue to act in the desired direction. No one else can take for us such an important decision. That is why - I maintain - let's be stubborn, let us persevere, but let's also smart. If something does not work - not indawajmy that works. If someone already came up with our idea before - do not pretend that we came up with something new. If you encounter a problem along the way - do not cover my eyes with the hope that in this way, it will disappear. Let us stand with him face to face, and if it proves to be too big - we can always change our plans. There are many roads to choose from.

How he used to say, our former Prime Minister Leszek Miller - "a real man knows not how to begin, but as ends." I will add only that one must also know when to stop. Sometimes a good end does not achieve the goal, but resignation and directing their energies to a new location.

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